
Frankly, I would think it would take an extraordinary
person to manage their lives w/o a life coach, and more
specifically, an extraordinary couple to manage their marriage
w/o a life coach. We all have issues and challenges, and
of course some marriages are 'rockier' than others. Cheryl
got us recalibrated by focusing on us as a couple...our
shared vision and the realization of our dreams.
She also forced us to slow down and listen to each other
(e.g., the reflection technique) and to look at the dynamics
of our relationship. It's so easy to go through the motions
day by day. She helped us understand and express our feelings,
and stay solution oriented. Its great to have a third person
perspective. Too bad she cannot move in w/ us like on that
Nanny 911 show!
Cherly was never at a loss for what to say or do. We managed
never to stump her. She was also very fair. Despite being
a woman, she did not ever seem to side w/ the wife.
We would highly recommend Cheryl to anyone who is looking
to get their lives on track and move forward with their
goals and dreams.
Be blessed,
Dr. Gary & Mrs. Powell
Vienna, VA
My wife and I have a God-centered, strong and loving marriage
of five years. So when Cheryl approached us regarding a
coaching relationship, I was unsure why we needed it. I
soon found out that Cheryl’s guidance equipped us
to grow in our relationship with each other and Christ.
As well, she has empowered us to develop our marriage for
today and tomorrow. Her techniques, suggestions and coaching
are terrific. I highly recommend her coaching to anyone
whether single, married or engaged, and no matter where
they are in his or her walk with our Savior.
Kevin Semple
Alexandria, Virginia
Through coaching, my husband and I were able
to really focus on what we want in life and why it is important
to us instead of just assuming we were on the same path.
Keeping our lives intertwined by really sharing our dreams,
fears and frustrations has made our marriage stronger. Having
a plan and communicating that plan can really make all the
difference.
When my husband and I started coaching, we had no idea how
many changes life might bring us. While change is good,
it can also be stressful! Cheryl was able to give us insight,
as individuals, into what really motivates us and what was
really going to mean the difference between a mediocre life
and a life that is fulfilling. She taught us many techniques
we use in our marriage to effectively deal with everything
from buying a new house, to dealing with job changes. I
know these are skills I'll be using my lifetime.
Niko Semple
Alexandria, Virginia
Thank God for life coaches! Cheryl Hayes came
into our live when our "prodigal son" was far
from God-but wanted to come home with his girlfriend!
When conventional wisdom-and every counselor I could find
to call-said"don't", Cheryl took another perspective
altogether 'til we had a plan with boundaries in place.
My son came home and within a few weeks his girlfriend arrived.
Conversations and life situations that could have never
happened 1000 miles away ensued-and God worked an absolute
miracle in my son and his girlfriends' life. They are now
both living strongly for Jesus-abstinent + drug free!
I'd say some of the biggest lessons life coaching taught
me were: to be open to new ideas, to ask "powerful
questions' instead of telling my kids how to think, and
to love people while God changes hearts as only He can.
I am Cheryl's biggest fan!
When coaching with Cheryl, I was finally able to hear and
understand what my husband’s concerns, dreams and vision
were for our retirement. Cheryl helped us "think outside
the box" and create a plan that has moved us forward
and has given us the flexibility that we were searching for.
It was Cheryl's ability to hear what wasn't said that made
the biggest impact.
Carolynne R.
Burke, VA
With Cheryl as my coach, I was able discover
the steps I needed to take to achieve balance between my personal
and professional life that I so desired.
Amy B.
Avondale, PA
It is really amazing talking with Cheryl. In just the first
2 sessions, I had gotten more clarity on specific issues than
years of having been in a small group or from reading books.
I get more and more excited with each session.